lyndina82 asked:
Last night I fell asleep watching tv on the couch, while my husband of 5 months was on the computer. We have computer and tv both in the living room. When I woke up I found him watching porn… at first I thought he was only watching it, when instead I found out that his hand was actually “working”down there! He didn’t realize I could see him, because our couch is actually behind his computer chair… I didn’t know what 2 do! One part of me was telling me to say “Hey! what the hell r u doing?” but another part was telling me to pretend I was still sleeping and not 2 say anything because he could have felt like if I was violating his privacy… But today I feel really bad. I know masturbating is a natural thing, but inside of myself I see it kind of as a form of cheating..He’s got me, why does he even have 2 get do that?!?What am I supposed 2 do now?Should I talk 2 him about it, tell him I saw him or just ignore the whole thing?I just feel so upset now, I dont know how 2 deal with it…
Judy
Last night I fell asleep watching tv on the couch, while my husband of 5 months was on the computer. We have computer and tv both in the living room. When I woke up I found him watching porn… at first I thought he was only watching it, when instead I found out that his hand was actually “working”down there! He didn’t realize I could see him, because our couch is actually behind his computer chair… I didn’t know what 2 do! One part of me was telling me to say “Hey! what the hell r u doing?” but another part was telling me to pretend I was still sleeping and not 2 say anything because he could have felt like if I was violating his privacy… But today I feel really bad. I know masturbating is a natural thing, but inside of myself I see it kind of as a form of cheating..He’s got me, why does he even have 2 get do that?!?What am I supposed 2 do now?Should I talk 2 him about it, tell him I saw him or just ignore the whole thing?I just feel so upset now, I dont know how 2 deal with it…
Judy
